I do not understand how my logic–this decision mean  people like me will be treated like racists who opose interracial.

Is “refuted” by a guy who says “yes you are exactlly like a racists who opposes interracial marriage.”

Seems like my convulted logic was just confirmed.

Sorry we disagree.

Maggie

Fair enough.  She’s worried that they will be compared to racists, and she sees anything that points out the similarities between her movement and racist movements of the past as an attack.  So I clarified a bit:

I think the point is mainly that claiming religious liberty on a social issue where the law is pulling away from traditional value systems is similar to the claims made by opponents of interracial marriage.

We definitely don’t agree on this issue, but I think that you’re doing your argument a disservice by bringing up any sort of comparison to the civil rights movement and racism.  Drawing that comparison in the NPR interview just made me think about how similar the Pro-Family argument is to previous groups who have opposed civil rights.

I am curious, though.  Religious groups seem to be the ones protesting same sex marriage the loudest.  Do you have any non-religious justification for advocating a separate but equal stance when it comes to homosexuals?  I’m genuinely interested as it seems that the religious side of the argument is drowning out anything else.

I’m willing to listen to their argument as long as the justification for opposing same sex marriage doesn’t involve religion or the Bible.  After getting a real response, albeit one that sidestepped the issue rather nicely, I was hoping that I could finally get someone to explain the secular justification for the sanctity of marriage.  Something that was well thought out and that I could really get behind because it didn’t involve anyone’s invisible friend hating on legally sanctioned same sex lovin’.  Alas, it wasn’t to be:

 My main point is to get people to admit that what they are saying has consequences.

You think I’m the exact equivalent of a bigot who opposes interracial marriage and should be treated as such.

Let’s not pretend that’s not an idea that will afffect a whole bunch of people besides Adam and Steve.

Maggie

I’m assuming that she means advocating gay marriage will have consequences.  What consequences?  Homosexual couples will finally be able to inherit their spouse’s property?  They’ll be allowed to make medical decisions in the event of an emergency?  They’ll gain a measure of social legitimacy that has been denied them for most of human history?

Or perhaps we’re talking about religious consequences.  Maybe Christians are worried that legalizing same sex marriage will lead to a disaster of biblical proportions.  Old testament, real wrath of God type stuff.  Fire and brimstone coming down from the skies!  Rivers and seas boiling!  Forty years of darkness!  Earthquakes!  Volcanoes!  The dead rising from the grave!  Human sacrifice, dogs and cats living together, mass hysteria!  Underlying the entire religious argument against gay marriage is the not-so-subtle subtext that if America starts allowing and flaunting this sort of sinful behavior we’re going to really get it from the Lord our God in much the same way as Sodom and Gomorrah.  To that I simply ask, why the hell hasn’t San Francisco been flung into the sea by a massive earthquake or destroyed by a meteor from the heavens?  I think they pretty much filled their “my cup runneth over” quota with God decades ago.  It hasn’t happened and it isn’t going to happen.

Maggie thinks this is going to affect a bunch of people other than Adam and Steve, but again fails to back it up or provide any justification for this stance.  Who is it going to affect?  How is this going to destroy the fabric of American society?  So far I see a lot of fire-breathing rhetoric with very little substance to back it up.  I was hoping that I could finally get a straight answer on gay marriage from one of its opponents, but again they sidestep the issue.

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You could tell that she knew she was on shaky moral ground from the beginning of the interview:

“This is a court that ruled… that orientation is going to be treated like race under California law. It really means that our government is now in the business in California of saying that people like me who think marriage is the union of husband and wife are exactly like bigots who opposed interracial marriage.”

The thing is, Maggie, that people like you are exactly like racist bigots earlier in the century who opposed interracial marriage.  Let’s go through a short list of the reasons:

1. For starters, I have yet to hear a pro-family group come up with a justification for banning gay marriage that didn’t involve their slightly fundamentalist interpretation of the Bible.  We live in a secular society with a secular government and a secular constitution, so attempting to argue and legislate from a position is not only irrelevant, it’s also illegal.
2. Opponents of interracial marriage made sure that there were unjust laws on the books that made the practice illegal, and when someone protested they pointed to those laws and said it was the will of the people.
3. Proponents of slavery and later of Jim Crow laws certainly had a Biblical justification for their bigotry ready to trot out whenever someone protested, but that didn’t make them right.
4. Opponents of gay marriage in California point to civil unions as a way for homosexual couples to be “separate but equal” under the law.  Can you think of another example of a minority group that was oppressed under the flimsy legal justification of “separate but equal”?

So I’m sorry, Maggie, but groups who oppose gay marriage today are exactly like groups who opposed interracial marriage.  My fervent hope is that history remembers you and your colleagues as the bigots that you are after the dust has cleared and the legality of gay marriage has been established once and for all.

“That means people in these faith traditions are going to be treated like racists in the public square if we don’t overturn this decision.”

Sometimes, Maggie, you have to call a spade a spade.  Anyone who treats you or your friends in Christ like bigots in the public square would be perfectly justified in doing so, because that’s what you are.  You’re trying to keep basic human rights that don’t harm anyone from a minority group because your invisible friend in the sky wrote down a few lines six thousand years ago that vaguely condemn one man lying with another man if you interpret it through the proper fundamentalist theology.  Your argument has no basis in modern morality.  The best you can come up with is that it’s the will of the people, but one of the great things about this country is that the will of the people can be overturned when the will of the people is wrong and violates the law.  The constitution is the highest law in America, not God.

“The next step is to raise $10 million to wage a media war.”

This is where conscientious people from all walks of life need to step in and step up.  You can see from the interview above that even when they come close to the truth, these fundamentalist nutjobs are still so set in their ways that they’re going to fight for a constitutional amendment tooth and nail.  We need to fight against them and make sure that this amendment doesn’t pass.  Of course all is not lost if it does pass, that just means that the decision will likely go to the Supreme Court to see if a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage is unconstitutional, but we have the opportunity to defeat this now and protect basic human rights for everyone, not just heterosexuals.

I’d like to leave everyone with one last thought from the duplicitous Maggie Gallagher:

“My concern is to protect marriage and religious liberty in the state of California and the rest of the United States.”

Sorry, Maggie, but heterosexuals have already destroyed the institution of marriage far more thoroughly than gays could ever hope to.  Heterosexuals have waged a vicious scorched earth campaign against marriage that has stretched across divorce courts, Jerry Springer, and reality shows like “Who Wants to Marry A Millionaire.”  You can’t fight for the integrity of marriage, because as it stands today heterosexuals have made sure that there is almost no integrity left in the institution.

And let’s remember that this is a society where we are guaranteed freedom from religious oppression.  The Establishment Clause was put in to prevent exactly the sort of thing that you are trying to do right now.  Your religious liberty does not extend so far that it should prevent the basic civil liberties of others.  This is a secular society, not a theocracy, and if your religious beliefs are so outdated as to become immoral then it’s probably time to examine them and make some changes.

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Of course it isn’t going to be easy. Project Marriage, a Christian organization touting itself as a “loose alliance of pro-family and church organizations” (which is press release code for “fundamentalist bigots”) has gotten over 1 million signatures on a proposal to amend the California constitution to ban gay marriage, thus invalidating today’s supreme court decision.

On the positive side, Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger has publicly stated that he will “always be there to fight against” this group and their efforts. The bad news is that the proposed constitutional amendment will go on the November ballot for a vote no matter what the governator says as long as they have enough valid signatures.

So we have a Christian group that is trying to pass legislation that will make their religious beliefs part of the secular constitution of their state. I don’t know about everyone else, but this boldfaced attempt by religion to hijack what should be a secular decision seriously pisses me off.

I’d just like to say that this is ridiculous. As Dan Savage is fond of pointing out, heterosexuals have proven with the divorce rate that they don’t give a rat’s ass about the sanctity of marriage, so that argument in favor of keeping gays from marrying falls flat. Leviticus has a pretty strong condemnation of homosexuality if you’re reading the right translation with the right interpretation, but Christians conveniently and consistently ignore Bible passages condemning divorce, adultery, and sacrificing a goat every time a woman is menstruating. Obviously they’re willing to overlook Bible passages when it makes their life more convenient, so there’s no reason why they can’t just agree to consign the anti-gay passages to the dustbin of religious history. There is absolutely no justifiable reason for all of this anti-gay sentiment amongst Christians. Even Jesus seemed like a live and let live kinda guy, not counting his cameo in Revelation.

The truth is that homosexuals provide a convenient “other” for conservative groups and conservative politicians to demonize for their own gain. Conservatives have discovered that nothing gets their fundamentalist religious base out of the church and into the voting booth better than the idea that somewhere two women or two men might be having sex with each other with the blessing of the state. And if they happen to vote anti-gay posturing politicians into office while they’re in that voting booth rallying against the perceived evils of homosexuality then that’s all the better for these Machiavellian bigots. Perhaps if conservatives ever pulled themselves away from the withered teats of Rush Limbaugh and Sean Hannity long enough to think an independent thought then they would be appalled at how easily they as a group are manipulated and herded, but that’s about as likely as Rush and Hannity taking advantage of the new pro-gay atmosphere in California to finally consummate their forbidden love.

Heterosexuals and homosexuals alike need to fight for the basic human rights of the homosexual community. Any society that is willing to marginalize one group could just as easily marginalize everyone else, and America is better than this. If you’d like to help out then you can start by checking out the ACLU’s Get Busy Get Equal campaign. I enjoy the legal protections of marriage, and I’m sure there are many others reading this who are married themselves. It’s time that we make sure our gay friends, relatives, and neighbors enjoy those same protections. And most importantly, it’s time that we send a message to the religious right that they can’t hijack the legal process to try and legislate their religious beliefs into law.

America is not a theocracy, and we need to make sure it stays that way.

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